What is your opinion of me? (ideas)

I've been in a mood to do work on my own site and I'm trying to get as much accomplished as possible before it goes away.

I just had this idea and I'd like to get your opinion.

I have an "ask me anything" section that I'll be releasing in a few days and in a similar fashion I'd like to create a "leave your opinion" section.

Obviously the name needs some work.

Basically I imagined it would have 3 tabs.
1) social opinions
2) professional opinions
3) trolls and lulz

Each tab might have a sub category or tags, be searchable etc.

Good idea or no? Leave a comment and let me know!

 

What is your opinion of me? (ideas)

I've been in a mood to do work on my own site and I'm trying to get as much accomplished as possible before it goes away.

I just had this idea and I'd like to get your opinion.

I have an "ask me anything" section that I'll be releasing in a few days and in a similar fashion I'd like to create a "leave your opinion" section.

Obviously the name needs some work.

Basically I imagined it would have 3 tabs.
1) social opinions
2) professional opinions
3) trolls and lulz

Each tab might have a sub category or tags, be searchable etc.

Good idea or no? Leave a comment and let me know!

 

Got suckered into going to a party. Surprisingly 90% female and no fatties.

Posted an observation to facebook.
Received emotionally loaded attacks.

"Don't dis on the fatties!. I'm a fattie! I thought you loved me.    Guess I was wrong."

"Thats actually an incredibly rude thing to say...
I mean you're obviously entitled to your own opinion but after all of the things I see you say about how everyone is a person and we should all just strive to be nice and acceptable to everyone else, it's kind of like a contradiction for you to say something so blatantly rude..."

What?? An observation cannot be rude!

Being fat is a physical state of being. It's an observable fact, not rude.

The definition of fat is:
Adjective








(of a person or animal) Having a large amount of excess flesh.


Observing that someone is fat is no different than seeing someone with blue eyes and saying that they have blue eyes.

"Hey you have blue eyes!"

"That's so rude!"

Ridiculous, right? Somehow our culture ties the word "fat" into something offensive. It's not.

Some people like blue eyes and some people prefer brown eyes. That's an opinion.

That someone has a color eye or excess flesh is a fact.

"It is rude, though, the way you said it.
I mean obviously, if someone is overweight or whatever, it's not being an asshole, but the way that you said it wasn't like "Oh, she's heavier than most of the other girls" or in an acceptable way. It was "lol 90% skinny bitches and no fatties scoooore" which kind of disgusts me because I didnt think you were that shallow"

That's a lot of emotional assumptions there. I am not you.

Also, I never stated my opinion!

Somehow there's the assumption that

1) if there are no "fatties" than everyone is skinny.
This was not the case.

2) there was no mention of what i personally thought about the situation.
for all anyone knows, i was disappointed that nobody there was fat. (i wasn't, just surprised)

3) saying the word fat does not make you shallow!
It doesn't matter how you say it. Somebody is either fat or not.

An example of a "shallow" person and fat people would be something like:

"We had a great conversation and she seems like a nice person but I don't want to be around her because she's fat!"

In related news, the word skinny is offensive!

"Some people are attracted to specific types. That doesn't make them shallow."

"Fat girls are the greatest, something to hold on to, more to love, more room for tattoos, bigger boobs. I'm curvy and proud    your loss joe."

If you have something to add, leave a comment :)

This food is so good!

Have you ever gone to a restaurant and had somebody decide to share their opinion of how "good" the food is?

I've always found this strange.

Not everyone likes the same food or orders the same thing.

People make generic statements about how they enjoyed something but they're really making a huge assumption that you're exactly like them!

I always tell people that there's no such thing as good or bad.   Both concepts are entirely subjective.

Everybody has a different life and a different view.

Just because you think something is good, doesn't mean everyone does.

Food for thought :)

This food is so good!

Have you ever gone to a restaurant and had somebody decide to share their opinion of how "good" the food is?

I've always found this strange.

Not everyone likes the same food or orders the same thing.

People make generic statements about how they enjoyed something but they're really making a huge assumption that you're exactly like them!

I always tell people that there's no such thing as good or bad.   Both concepts are entirely subjective.

Everybody has a different life and a different view.

Just because you think something is good, doesn't mean everyone does.

Food for thought :)

Got suckered into going to a party. Surprisingly 90% female and no fatties.

Posted an observation to facebook.
Received emotionally loaded attacks.

"Don't dis on the fatties!. I'm a fattie! I thought you loved me.    Guess I was wrong."

"Thats actually an incredibly rude thing to say...
I mean you're obviously entitled to your own opinion but after all of the things I see you say about how everyone is a person and we should all just strive to be nice and acceptable to everyone else, it's kind of like a contradiction for you to say something so blatantly rude..."

What?? An observation cannot be rude!

Being fat is a physical state of being. It's an observable fact, not rude.

The definition of fat is:
Adjective








(of a person or animal) Having a large amount of excess flesh.


Observing that someone is fat is no different than seeing someone with blue eyes and saying that they have blue eyes.

"Hey you have blue eyes!"

"That's so rude!"

Ridiculous, right? Somehow our culture ties the word "fat" into something offensive. It's not.

Some people like blue eyes and some people prefer brown eyes. That's an opinion.

That someone has a color eye or excess flesh is a fact.

"It is rude, though, the way you said it.
I mean obviously, if someone is overweight or whatever, it's not being an asshole, but the way that you said it wasn't like "Oh, she's heavier than most of the other girls" or in an acceptable way. It was "lol 90% skinny bitches and no fatties scoooore" which kind of disgusts me because I didnt think you were that shallow"

That's a lot of emotional assumptions there. I am not you.

Also, I never stated my opinion!

Somehow there's the assumption that

1) if there are no "fatties" than everyone is skinny.
This was not the case.

2) there was no mention of what i personally thought about the situation.
for all anyone knows, i was disappointed that nobody there was fat. (i wasn't, just surprised)

3) saying the word fat does not make you shallow!
It doesn't matter how you say it. Somebody is either fat or not.

An example of a "shallow" person and fat people would be something like:

"We had a great conversation and she seems like a nice person but I don't want to be around her because she's fat!"

In related news, the word skinny is offensive!

"Some people are attracted to specific types. That doesn't make them shallow."

"Fat girls are the greatest, something to hold on to, more to love, more room for tattoos, bigger boobs. I'm curvy and proud    your loss joe."

If you have something to add, leave a comment :)

are you like this to everyone you talk to?

Jenna: :3
Joe: ;O
Jenna: how are you :D
Jenna: haha sorry. just wanted someone new to talk to.
Joe: your profile says there's a 98% chance of your account being fake
Jenna: how? o.O
Joe: wouldn't you like to know ;)
Jenna: o.o
Jenna: i have this account for people who still want to be friends but don't want to see all my lame posts on my other fb. i'm sorry if you think i'm fake..
Joe: odd
Joe: it doesn't matter to me either way
Joe: you're a real person even if there's a high chance you're pretending to look like someone else
Joe: also, facebook allows you to choose who sees your posts. you can just make a group of people and share to them only
Jenna: well then i suppsose ill go add you on my other account...
Jenna: i've tried that but that list of people that i hide posts from has gotten kind of long.
Joe: sketchyyy lol
Jenna: -.-
Jenna: well sorry for trying to be friendly. was going to say i think your art is great.
Joe: sorry why?
Jenna: just wanted to start a conversation with someone new. but yeah.
Joe: and you did...
Joe: is there a problem?
Jenna: .......
Jenna: you don't have to shoot me down.
Joe: shoot you down how?
Jenna: accusing me of being fake and calling me sketchy.
Joe: you might be assuming things in the wrong direction
Joe: if you're not fake then it shouldn't bother you
Joe: i didn't say you are. i said it's likely
Jenna: i'm only bothered that i'm trying to be nice and you are being rude.
Joe: please explain where i was rude
Jenna: are you like this to everyone you talk to?
Joe: yes

Jenna: :3
Joe: ;O
Jenna: how are you :D
Jenna: haha sorry. just wanted someone new to talk to.
Joe: your profile says there's a 98% chance of your account being fake
Jenna: how? o.O
Joe: wouldn't you like to know ;)
Jenna: o.o
Jenna: i have this account for people who still want to be friends but don't want to see all my lame posts on my other fb. i'm sorry if you think i'm fake..
Joe: odd
Joe: it doesn't matter to me either way
Joe: you're a real person even if there's a high chance you're pretending to look like someone else
Joe: also, facebook allows you to choose who sees your posts. you can just make a group of people and share to them only
Jenna: well then i suppsose ill go add you on my other account...
Jenna: i've tried that but that list of people that i hide posts from has gotten kind of long.
Joe: sketchyyy lol
Jenna: -.-
Jenna: well sorry for trying to be friendly. was going to say i think your art is great.
Joe: sorry why?
Jenna: just wanted to start a conversation with someone new. but yeah.
Joe: and you did...
Joe: is there a problem?
Jenna: .......
Jenna: you don't have to shoot me down.
Joe: shoot you down how?
Jenna: accusing me of being fake and calling me sketchy.
Joe: you might be assuming things in the wrong direction
Joe: if you're not fake then it shouldn't bother you
Jenna: https://www.facebook.com/jenna.morey < my main account. <1 attachment> http://www.facebook.com/messages/?action=read&tid=id.270241669681092
Joe: i didn't say you are. i said it's likely
Jenna: i'm only bothered that i'm trying to be nice and you are being rude.
Joe: please explain where i was rude
Jenna: are you like this to everyone you talk to?
Joe: yes

are you like this to everyone you talk to?

Jenna: :3
Joe: ;O
Jenna: how are you :D
Jenna: haha sorry. just wanted someone new to talk to.
Joe: your profile says there's a 98% chance of your account being fake
Jenna: how? o.O
Joe: wouldn't you like to know ;)
Jenna: o.o
Jenna: i have this account for people who still want to be friends but don't want to see all my lame posts on my other fb. i'm sorry if you think i'm fake..
Joe: odd
Joe: it doesn't matter to me either way
Joe: you're a real person even if there's a high chance you're pretending to look like someone else
Joe: also, facebook allows you to choose who sees your posts. you can just make a group of people and share to them only
Jenna: well then i suppsose ill go add you on my other account...
Jenna: i've tried that but that list of people that i hide posts from has gotten kind of long.
Joe: sketchyyy lol
Jenna: -.-
Jenna: well sorry for trying to be friendly. was going to say i think your art is great.
Joe: sorry why?
Jenna: just wanted to start a conversation with someone new. but yeah.
Joe: and you did...
Joe: is there a problem?
Jenna: .......
Jenna: you don't have to shoot me down.
Joe: shoot you down how?
Jenna: accusing me of being fake and calling me sketchy.
Joe: you might be assuming things in the wrong direction
Joe: if you're not fake then it shouldn't bother you
Jenna: https://www.facebook.com/jenna.morey < my main account. <1 attachment> http://www.facebook.com/messages/?action=read&tid=id.270241669681092
Joe: i didn't say you are. i said it's likely
Jenna: i'm only bothered that i'm trying to be nice and you are being rude.
Joe: please explain where i was rude
Jenna: are you like this to everyone you talk to?
Joe: yes