Who do you blame for how you feel?



Every emotion you have is your choice.

Perspective is everything.

They don't teach it very well in our culture




How to accept life and be happy









The origin of feelings.

How many times have you blamed someone else for your feelings?

"You're making me so mad!"

Nope.






I can't make you mad, only you make you mad.






 

All people can do is influence us.

We're the only one who chooses.


Who do you blame for how you feel?



Every emotion you have is your choice.

Perspective is everything.

They don't teach it very well in our culture




How to accept life and be happy









The origin of feelings.

How many times have you blamed someone else for your feelings?

"You're making me so mad!"

Nope.






I can't make you mad, only you make you mad.






All people can do is influence us.

We're the only one who chooses.


Feelings and actions are not directly related

I can feel something and not act on it, or I can act against something I feel, or I can act and you can assume I feel something that I don't.

It boils down to the fact that I am the only one who feels my feelings. You can't ever know if I feel something or not based on whether I perform an action or not.

The feeling exists regardless.

The only way you will ever know is if you ask.

Feelings and actions are not directly related




I  can feel something and not act on it, or I  can act against something I  feel,  or I  can act and you can assume I  feel something that  I  don't.




It boils down to the fact that I  am the only one who feels my feelings.  You can't ever know if I  feel something  or not based on whether I  perform an action or not.






The feeling exists regardless.

The only way you will ever know is if you ask.