Feelings and actions are not directly related

I can feel something and not act on it, or I can act against something I feel, or I can act and you can assume I feel something that I don't.

It boils down to the fact that I am the only one who feels my feelings. You can't ever know if I feel something or not based on whether I perform an action or not.

The feeling exists regardless.

The only way you will ever know is if you ask.