Thought cloud of Attractive and Unattractive qualities in women (or people in general)

I received an email today from a friend of mine with this question. I decided to devote some thought to it and see what answers I could pull from my twitter/facebook community.

My list

attractive qualities:
honesty, compassion, understanding.
respectful, classy, articulate, intelligent, educated, curious

maturity
must be able to listen, compromise and problem solve without becoming upset
in control of herself and her emotions
loyal, thoughtful, selfless

aware of her strengths and weaknesses
self-motivated
socially active, friendly, and engaging

healthy, physically active, sports or exercise

unattractive qualities:
jealousy, excessive anger, intolerance, need for control
disorganized, obsessive, messy, dirty, vulgar

insecurity

acting out for attention, inappropriate dress

physically lashing out, pushy, abuse

vengeful
From twitter:
@brandennmichael


"Attractive: Being strong and powerfu. i.e. @JENNIWOWW"


"Girls who "need" you. #unattractive"


"Girls who eat like slobs.  #unattractive"



@inshaneshane "girls who consistently whine  #unattractive"



@m0llybee "An outgoing personality is attractive, sluttiness isnt."



@mandagoesrawr "attractive: when a girl knows they are classy sassy & confident without having anyone tell them..unattractive: extreme insecurity"


@ardehp "(unattractive: girls)  that don't take the pill when they have a regular fling every few days. Why force the men to wear tight latex around them?"


From Facebook:

Elle Harmer "I'd say lack of self... not being able to define herself without an outside romantic influence"


Thanks to everyone who contributed :)



 

Thought cloud of Attractive and Unattractive qualities in women (or people in general)

I received an email today from a friend of mine with this question. I decided to devote some thought to it and see what answers I could pull from my twitter/facebook community.

My list

attractive qualities:
honesty, compassion, understanding.
respectful, classy, articulate, intelligent, educated, curious

maturity
must be able to listen, compromise and problem solve without becoming upset
in control of herself and her emotions
loyal, thoughtful, selfless

aware of her strengths and weaknesses
self-motivated
socially active, friendly, and engaging

healthy, physically active, sports or exercise

unattractive qualities:
jealousy, excessive anger, intolerance, need for control
disorganized, obsessive, messy, dirty, vulgar

insecurity

acting out for attention, inappropriate dress

physically lashing out, pushy, abuse

vengeful
From twitter:
@brandennmichael


"Attractive: Being strong and powerfu. i.e. @JENNIWOWW"


"Girls who "need" you. #unattractive"


"Girls who eat like slobs.  #unattractive"



@inshaneshane "girls who consistently whine  #unattractive"



@m0llybee "An outgoing personality is attractive, sluttiness isnt."



@mandagoesrawr "attractive: when a girl knows they are classy sassy & confident without having anyone tell them..unattractive: extreme insecurity"


@ardehp "(unattractive: girls)  that don't take the pill when they have a regular fling every few days. Why force the men to wear tight latex around them?"


From Facebook:

Elle Harmer "I'd say lack of self... not being able to define herself without an outside romantic influence"


Thanks to everyone who contributed :)



 

Who do you blame for how you feel?



Every emotion you have is your choice.

Perspective is everything.

They don't teach it very well in our culture




How to accept life and be happy









The origin of feelings.

How many times have you blamed someone else for your feelings?

"You're making me so mad!"

Nope.






I can't make you mad, only you make you mad.






 

All people can do is influence us.

We're the only one who chooses.


Who do you blame for how you feel?



Every emotion you have is your choice.

Perspective is everything.

They don't teach it very well in our culture




How to accept life and be happy









The origin of feelings.

How many times have you blamed someone else for your feelings?

"You're making me so mad!"

Nope.






I can't make you mad, only you make you mad.






All people can do is influence us.

We're the only one who chooses.